Have Crush on someone? A passing Infatuation or Love


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In our life, we sometimes have crush upon someone, if she is a girl, her hair seems to be shinier, her pimple started to seem like a simple to us(really?🤔). If he is a boy, he seems more handsome to us, his stupidity seem cute to us. In short, we just saw that person with covered eyes (not literally 😉). We want to look at that person, want to start a relationship with him/her for that matter. We look at those qualities which may not present in them at all. We notice every tiny detail about them, how insignificant that detail might seem to others. But it is just a passing feeling and sometimes we just starting to have a crush on another person at the same time. Psychologically it is said that if you had a crush on someone for four weeks straight, it can be termed as love 🤗. But what if that person hasn't seen anyone like him or her. Sometimes, we had a crush on the people who are out of reach (how? 🤨). Well, haven't you seen people lifting banners of movie or drama stars? People literally swoon to watch their favourite actor, actress, singer and players. Your crush is someone perfect for you (although you know they are not).


The charm of crush roams in your mind but everything changes when you started having infatuation towards another person. Really, people cross every boundary when they feel that they had a crush on someone and feel like they fell in love with that person. Before concluding any feeling as love could be dangerous because it will make you lose yourself for another person. Wait for some time, meet with some other guy or girl (maybe have blind dates or something 😉), try to move your attention towards others things and if anything from the above-mentioned method work for you, feel free to live your life. If the feelings persist after 2 to 4 months after doing all these things, then go ahead to win that person. The thing we all need to understand that crush is just timely infatuation and nothing else. You will laugh at it, once you would be mature, so, why take unnecessary steps for them?

Wishing you a day full of love and joy 💖.

 

 

 

 


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