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"Inner Beauty is far more Important than Outer Beauty"

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Beauty has always been an important part of our life as human beings. We want to look at the beautiful person. In general, we feel drawn toward beautiful people. It makes us wonder at the person, to look at his or her beauty. Beauty has been an important muse for poets to write. Capture any novel, you will find a protagonist who is breathtakingly handsome or breathtakingly beautiful. We feel drawn towards beautiful people but Is physical beauty is everything? It reminds me of an essay by G.B. Shaw and made me realize that no! physical beauty is nothing as compared to inner beauty. It may engulf us in an instant by its raw beauty. It makes us bow before the beauty, but when we really felt that it's just beautiful outside and the inward is like complete opposite, we made a run. I am not saying beauty isn't important, ask a girl maybe her whole life revolves around the care that how she appeared in front of others. But why is that? Because beauty is not a thing that will last fore...

Surround Yourself with Upbeat people... A gateway to positivity

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We came in this world with plenty of relationships, which are out of our control. Those relationships are fixed with us and are unbreakable, even if you hate them, you cannot end your relationship with them. But it's not like we aren't given any choice, our friends are the people that we choose. It is also in our hand to decide to surround ourselves with which kind of people (mostly). There are a lot of people who live around us, some are very kind and some are very rude. If we surround ourselves with decent people, it will have a good effect on our personality. But if we surround ourselves with corrupt people, it will ultimately lead to having a bad influence on us. It is natural that if your circle of people are dreamers, you are most likely to be a dreamer. If they are drug addicts or chain smokers, there is a high probability of your becoming one also because people influence us unexpectedly. In the same way, we also influence people directly or indirectly. So, you shoul...

"Let go of people who bring you down" A Formula to be an Optimistic person

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There are people in our lives which make us feel like less. They make several demeaning comments on us in such a way that we started to feel like nothing. This makes us sometimes wonder whether we have any importance or worth🤔. Just try to ignore what they say because whatever you would listen about yourself, you would perceive yourself like that. Walk away from the people who make you feel guilty or bad whether he or she is your friend, boyfriend, girlfriend or whosoever. Don't let the people judge you by any means. Nobody would respect you if you cannot respect yourself. Sometimes walking away from is very painful and you cannot make yourself able to let go of those people. Just whatever you do never ever let anyone decide in your life that what is your worth(exactly 🤔).  In this world nobody is perfect, but there is no need to be perfect to be in a relationship with the person you always wanted to be.  Find the people who give you positive energy and make you feel great...

Reality or Myth? Deciphering the truth of “Can One Please Everyone”?

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Our whole life is almost surrounded around the effort and struggle of pleasing others. And if not pleasing, impressing others in one way or the other. Sometimes the “other” refer to our family as we work to prove our worth to our parents, family, peers, friends, bosses and so on. But even after doing everything in our power to satisfy others, we always have people who are against us, do not like our presence or our decisions for that matter. Sometimes they do not like us for our work, our background, our economic status, our appearance, our religion, our caste, our family, our determination or our being different and a lot of other reasons😭. Well, it’s a fact that you cannot please everybody. So, why judge ourselves with others perception? Every person in this world is unique. He or she has his or her own worth, irrespective of the other's notion about him or her😊. There are several people in this world, who criticize and even sometimes bully others because they aren’t as good ...