Surround Yourself with Upbeat people... A gateway to positivity

 

Published by A.K

We came in this world with plenty of relationships, which are out of our control. Those relationships are fixed with us and are unbreakable, even if you hate them, you cannot end your relationship with them. But it's not like we aren't given any choice, our friends are the people that we choose. It is also in our hand to decide to surround ourselves with which kind of people (mostly). There are a lot of people who live around us, some are very kind and some are very rude. If we surround ourselves with decent people, it will have a good effect on our personality. But if we surround ourselves with corrupt people, it will ultimately lead to having a bad influence on us.

It is natural that if your circle of people are dreamers, you are most likely to be a dreamer. If they are drug addicts or chain smokers, there is a high probability of your becoming one also because people influence us unexpectedly. In the same way, we also influence people directly or indirectly. So, you should know what kind of influence you have on the people around you. In the same way choose that which kind of person you want to be, then surround yourself with the people having desired traits (if possible). You will slowly start to feel a difference in you by surrounding yourself with positive people. There is a famous saying that

Birds of a flock, fly together.

Always surround yourself with the people who have a constructive approach towards life and this world. Believe me, these people will bring the best out of you. Distance yourself with negative people because they teach you to focus on negativity about yourself and this world. At this point, I also want to focus on the idea that to see negativity in the world is not always bad as if you see poverty in the society, rather than being a critic to the government, be a helping hand. By looking on the negativity, do something positive which might be a very little deed of kindness for you but for someone, it may worth a lot. Surround yourself with people who motivate you or inspire you. This world might work on a give and take rule, but once you give someone something out of kindness, the happiness and contentment you will experience will be beyond words. Do this and you will be overwhelmed by the positivity it will bring in your life.

Wishing you a day full of Love and Affection💖.