" People are like Moulds, Become what we Say...Be responsible with What you Say"

 Published by A.K 

In our life, we had an impression about each and every person, we encounter. Sometimes we just bottled us that impression but sometimes we speak up about them. Our perspective about people, their achievements, their goals plays a vital part in their life. When we say a lie, again and again, it started to seem as aa reality. In the same way, people are just like moulds, it is the perception of the society about them that made them either what society believes or completely opposite of their impression. It has a very deep effect on our personality that is beyond Imagination. If you continuously say about a person that he is very obedient, he will ultimately be one. If you call your wife beautiful, again and again, you make her feel beautiful and she will be started becoming a beauty. What our ears heard the perception about us, had a long-lasting effect on. Our psych. There is a joke linked to the effect of the perception that I really want to share with you.

Once there was a locality of frogs in an area. There used to be a hole in the ground, which was considered lethal for frogs because it was deep.  Three frogs happened to fall into that pit, it was deep, and they were trying to escape from it.  Meanwhile, a lot of frogs gathered there and whispered there about the impossibility of their escape. All the frogs jumped again and again but failed. Then two of them lost their courage and fell down. One of those two was so heartbroken that he died there instantly. Other also lay there in that ravine but one frog keeps on trying to jump. The frogs around him said him to stop but rather he tried jumping more desperately and almost like a miracle he came out of that pit. When he was out the other frogs around him came to know that he was dead. He thinks that everyone is cheering for him and came out of that pit believing that. He would not make it possible if he had heard their opinion about it. In the same manner, we get affected by other's perception directly or indirectly. Whether we try to get rid of that idea, it is very difficult to act against the perception. The people, who are able to go against the view or able to challenge are very few and most of the people just lose heart.

The very same manner when you tell a child about anything that you can't make it will lead him into believing that he really can't. If you make a person believe that he is unique, he ultimately produces some symptoms to make him or her unique in some skill or mode of work in life. It is the society that makes or break people. Try to make people comfortable and not give any scar with our words to anyone which runs deep into the soul. Try to make people confident, controlled and better to be able to live in this world as an example of humanity💓.

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